Making It Legal. How to Get a Marriage License in the Carolinas

Before you can say “I do” in North Carolina, the state must say “You may,” by issuing a marriage license to you and the one you love. It’s a simple process — doesn’t hurt a bit — but the requirements are very specific. Your county Register of Deeds office is the place; 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. is the time in most counties. But savvy brides always double check times and places, don’t they?

Both you and your fiancé must be present when you apply for your license and you must bring a picture ID such as a driver’s license, or a certified copy of your birth certificate. Both of you must also show proof of your Social Security number, either with the card itself, or with some other document such as a W-2 form, payroll stub, or statement from the Social Security Office. If either of you is under 18 years of age, you’ll need the consent of one of your parents. If you’re under 18 and your parents are divorced, whichever parent has custody of you must give the consent.

The marriage license fee in North Carolina is $50.00; an additional $10.00 fee allows you to obtain a certified copy of the marriage certificate. And bring cash! No checks or credit cards are accepted. Although it probably isn’t wise to wait until the last minute to get your license, once you have it, you can get married immediately. It’s valid for only 60 days from the date of issue, so don’t apply too soon.

In South Carolina, most requirements are the same as in North Carolina. However, there are a few differences. Instead of the county register of deeds office, you and your fiancé must appear before a county probate judge. The marriage license fee may vary from county to county, and there is at least a one-day waiting period (this may also vary, depending on the county — ask!) from the time you apply until you can pick up your license. Once you receive it, though, it will always be valid in South Carolina. ~JSC