How To Do the Ring Thing

You’re ready to pop the question, but first you need a ring.

Here are a few tips to keep in mind as you begin

search for the jewelry that you’ll both be wearing for years to come.

• Find a jeweler that you can trust. They will be a source of valuable advice and can help you make the selection that’s right for you. Do your research and also ask family members and friends for recommendations.

• Set your budget. A general guideline for the engagement ring is two months’ salary, but buy the best ring you can afford. Usually the groom pays for the bride’s rings and the bride pays for the groom’s ring.

• Learn about the four Cs: carat, color, clarity, cut. The cut is the only thing determined by human hands, but they all help determine the value and quality of the diamond you select. Your jeweler can guide you through the process of evaluating and choosing a stone.

• Consider your lifestyle and taste. Choose the precious metals and gems that compliment your other jewelry, as well as your skin tone. If you choose a colored gem such as a ruby, sapphire, or emerald, you can even plan your wedding colors around it. Remember that the engagement ring and bands do not have to match, and that two- or three-toned jewelry is a popular trend. Keep your career and hobbies in mind so that your setting and band style will allow you to wear your rings comfortably and safely.

• Have fun! Take the time to browse, try on all kinds of rings, and dream. Enjoy your time together to choose rings that will stand the test of time and reflect the style and personality of both of you.